I hate going to the dentist. Especially since my dentist, Dr. Work, AKA a stand-up comedian, retired.
March 26 was my six month ordeal (AKA check-up). Approaching the building where I used to be royally entertained, my expectations were not high.
Crossing the threshold, I noted excitement and newness in the air. Dr. Clare (who bought out the practice) was grinning from ear to ear; the hygienists, receptionist, and even the bookkeeper looked like they were auditioning for Downton Abbey.
When change is not my idea and appears unavoidable, gnashing my teeth occurs to me. Changes such as: A change in my schedule. A computer update. A new person serving me in place of a person that I have developed a relationship with. A new package design that makes locating a favorite product difficult. A new direction for rescuing voice messages. A favorite product discontinued.
I usually find it a challenge to see the positive in change.
What was the excitement at the dentist office?
Staff was learning how to operate new technology – there were new X-Ray machines and new computer programs and monitors and this was the first day after their training.
Enthusiasm was obvious and infectious. I was impressed.
Challenging our brains to try new things – especially new technology – takes a fighting spirit.
Responding to change with an open mind and heart is my intention.
What is your usual response when you hear from someone that there will be a change? Which changes bring excitement? Which bring gnashing of teeth? How do you deal with change that you are not in charge of? When is the last time you tried something new?
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Thank you for exploring the mystery of change – Nicky Mendenhall
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Nicky, I hate the dentist, too, and when my hygienist left, I was so apprehensive about the "new" one. She turns out to be very good, but I dread the appointments anyway. I've been so fortunate lately, with no big problems. I keep thinking I will get better about going there and better about change, like getting older magically makes me deal with things better. I want to think that I can handle change in a positive way, then an appliance breaks or I worry about house maintenance or having enough money, etc., etc. My first instinct is……not quite panic, but it's not positive. After the initial moments of the change are introduced, and I can reason with myself and figure out ways to cope, and then feel annoyed with myself for not being that way to begin with! I'm hoping for the day when I can go from negative to positive quicker, or maybe no negative at all? I don't know if that's possible. Anyway, I'm happy to know I'm not the only one who dislikes going to the dentist!
Really good questions…
I'd say my usual reaction to change has been negative.
Travel is a totally acceptable change that I always look forward to….could it be that I know it is temporary and I will come back to the familiar?
Nina – you ask a good question yourself!
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